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Welcome to the website  created by 
Mary Jean Ziska.  My website is
called my gingerbreadman based on
a story i wrote for my sisters and friends
before the christmas of 2003.  It was
supposed to be an inspirational story
of hope and finding true love... 
like the  fairy tale...story book 
 "happily ever after" ending...
the dream of  finding your sould mate
and to give hope that a true soul mate...
actually does exist! That one person
destined to be your match... your equal 
to complement your personality
and your life... a person
you were really  destined to meet
...at the right time..
and destined to have in your life...
a story to give hope to the romantics...
and to the dreamers... 

So pull up a chair and make yourself
comfortable... I hope you  will believe
that there is a perfect person made just 
for you... made like a 
gingerbreadman cookie...
and made perfectly for you... 
and this person will be...
 your gingerbreadman or woman...
I hope you enjoy the story...
the blog...

Addendum to www.mygingerbreadman.com:

So I wrote this story in 2002… and I must admit I had high hopes and expectations that my life and love life would be just great… boy was I mistaken… and I must say that no matter  how wonderful yourlife is going at any given moment.... And how prepared you are to meet the right person…  I mean, how honest. or nice, or really  ready to meet the right person… if you end up meeting just one wrong  person .. your entire life can be ruined.. and the chances of ever meeting anyone great can be wiped out in a second .. never to return…

So since 2002…. I have not met anyone great, or amazing, or nice or extradordinary or wonderful….  Not one real, authentic, person or one real authentic  date…. No one with excellent qualities who was even close to being a soul mate let alone “mygingerbread man….”
  I have met a lot of horrid people who turned out to be neither friends … or potential people I  would want to date…. Or even  people who  I could   be  so  grateful to have in my life.  You know that  kind of person or group of people who make your life millions times better… by just being in your life...  a person  who you can genuinely  laugh with, who you can trust, you can be your best friend,  who you would want to date…or even to   fall in love with...  .. or eventually marry.. to have children with.. to have as a best friend or partner… to  grow old with … to share a life time of memories with….

So is there  such a thing as a God who has everything  pre- planned ?… who has a perfect person  out there for me?…   that he has that  right person destined to be   “ my gingerbreadman”….  this great guy just  perfect for me...  who can't wait to meet me... and  what ... we run off into the sunset....

No…

After having my identity stolen in 2002….. AND MY CREDIT RUINED.. AND HAD SUCH HORRID GIRLS AND BOYS WHO DID NOTHING BUT LIE CHEAT AND STEAL FROM ME…. WHO RUINED ALL MY HOPES AND DREAMS FOR  MY LIFE .. FOR MY FUTURE…   I DO NOT BELIEVE ANYMORE IN  LOVE .. OR AT LEAST PURE, TRUE LOVE…  I DO NOT BELIEVE IN HEROS OR MIRACLES.. OR EVEN HOPES AND DREAMS COMING TRUE… I DO NOT  BELIEVE IN HAPPILY EVER AFTER… OR EVEN IN PRINCE CHARMING...  AND EVEN THOUGH I WISH THIS LOVELY STORY HAD ENDED IN A HAPILY EVER AFTER FAIRY BOOK ENDING… IT DID NOT!

Instead I have been through  12 years of  hell… and some of the worst  experiences in my life… which is a total shame…  I regret every  horrible moment I had to go through…… it completely ruined my life and I miss my life… my hopes and dreams and everything I ever wanted…. I miss my laughing with my friends and family,  I miss making new and great wonderful friends  that I could know for a lifetime….  pray that God is a “Just  God” and will punish the horrible people who took a very happy, hopeful, and loving, nice person and  ruined everything…

This ending to  the” my gingerbreadmanstory”    is defiantly not what I had expected, or wanted… but it is the truth… so if you want to know more of the  truth…. See the other website created by Mary Jean Ziska  …. “ www.mysearchforjustice.com”

My advice… to anyone who actually has a great life… be very careful who you let into your life… anyone   who is bad, or criminal, or horrid in any way shape or from .... my advice… run… don’t let them near you …  and never look back because these horrid people will ruin your life…….  I mean they will  actually really ruin your entire life… and never care that they did…. And instead of that fairy tale happily ever after  life you had ……or wanted… instead of the life you worked  for  and all the relationships  you build and cultivated over an entire lifetime… they will ruin everything… and … life as you know it will never be the same…. 

   If any wonderful experiences.. and miracles actually ever  do happen… if any prayers are acutally answered….  I’ll change this addendum… but  for now.. as of May 2012…..

My life is not even close to  anything it should have been and I will never forgive or forget  the people  who not only ruined my life but ruined my gingerbread man story…. A story of  hope and  destiny and love…. And the possibility and  of  finding true love… and  having all your wishes,  hopes and dreams come true…. 

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